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                    2: A change of ways  
                    those ways in life.. it is strange how they turn sometimes, 
                    you scribble them on a paper, you do the one and other version 
                    of it until you feel you got it right, and then you call this 
                    piece of paper plan and expect life to respect it. like with 
                    this trip, that was supposed to start at a camping site in 
                    the Ardennes with the meeting of a friend, and then should 
                    continue onwards to Brussels to meet another friend. all was 
                    settled and arranged, the tent waiting in the car, the road 
                    map printed, the arrival times neatly written in the timer. 
                    but things went another way, a little virus changed it all, 
                    my friend had to leave the camping site early, and there i 
                    was, fallen through my own plan, with not even a help desk 
                    to go to and complain, nothing left for me but the option 
                    to shift schemes. and isn't it odd how hard this is sometimes, 
                    how our mind seems to be glued to that first plan, and how 
                    it takes an effort to get that stuck mind going again. it 
                    was a bike ride that did the trick for me, maybe it was the 
                    moving landscapes, the moving viewpoints that made the difference, 
                    i don't know, but it was there on that bike ride that the 
                    trip fell into place again, all upside down but right in a 
                    new way: starting into another direction to visit another 
                    friend on another way to Belgium, arriving in Brussels a day 
                    earlier and having more time for the city this way, staying 
                    in a hotel instead of sleeping in a tent, and turning the 
                    way that was supposed to be the long way abroad into the long 
                    way home.  but it seemed 
                    life wasn't convinced i had learned that lesson well enough, 
                    and so gave me an extra-teaching. Wednesday, 11 o'clock, everything 
                    ready to go, me sitting in the car, starting the engine, turning 
                    on the music, opening the windows to catch the breeze
 
                    and there it was, this noise cars make to tell you that this 
                    is the end of the trip, at least for the moment. so for me, 
                    this trip didn't start with the first step, but with a telephone 
                    call, a hither and thither of organizing, a trying to figure 
                    out how to get started at all. 
 "there always is a way, you just have to find it" 
                    ~ that's what someone in India said to me, in this land of 
                    riddles and dead end diagrams, in this land that teaches you 
                    how to have patience and how to take alternative routes. and 
                    yes, there was a way, there really always is, i will spare 
                    you the details, otherwise we will never get started here, 
                    and i have enough of waiting anyway, i really feel like going, 
                    i so feel like going, just like i always do when the time 
                    to travel has come, when i know that there are all these places 
                    out there waiting for me, when i can feel yesterday, tomorrow 
                    and today merging into one as i drive down the lanes that 
                    float towards the horizon
 
 Part 3: Lost and found
 
 
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